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| My Biggest Influence! |
I have been thinking a lot lately about all of the different
people and ideas that have influenced me as I watch my little Lucas grow up and
wonder what he is being influenced by. The things that influence a child, and
later an adult, can have such a profound effect on a person’s growth and
development at any stage.
1. Childhood
My first influencers were my
parents and grandparents. I idolized my grandfathers, loved the women in my
life tremendously, and thought my dad was the smartest guy on earth. These
kinds of feelings tend to age gracefully, and although you can start seeing
these early influencers as the normal humans that they are, they still take on
a superhuman quality in your memory.
2. Adolescence
I was a boy who loved to read and
play sports, so my next influences came from both my imagination and my sports
watching. My favorite books were mostly from fantasy, like the “Chronicles of
Narnia” or “Lord of the Rings.” My next
favorites were swashbuckling adventures like “The Three Musketeers.” From
sports, being from Chicago, your idols were Walter Payton and Michael Jordan.
One was the epitome of class and effort on the football field, while the other
was an athlete who seemed like he was from another planet he was so gifted.
3. Late Teens/Early Twenties
Books were still a large part of my
life at this point, and I discovered my love for science fiction, and became
enamored by Philip K. Dick and Douglas Adams. These two writers represented
polar opposites in the sci-fi world, but reminded of the importance of always
getting out of your head for a little bit. I also became an avid reader of
non-fiction, where I discovered a yearning for truth that I never had known
inside me. To this day, I am great at researching things because of my innate
desire to understand the whole truth of what I am researching.
4. Adulthood/Parenthood
Living in reality has been the
biggest influence on me now. My son and my wife are the greatest influences I
can imagine. They are a constant and steady reminder that life is a beautiful
and magical thing that needs to be lived and appreciated in every moment.
What influences you? Do you pay attention to the little
things that inspire you to keep on working, keep on moving, and keep on living?
Happy parenting!
Damir
Labels: Influence, Life, Living, Lucas